Category Archives: married to a man

The Divorcee’s Neighborhood

Posted on November 17, 2011 by

It seems like my neighborhood is getting closer to meeting the projected goal of the nationwide divorce rate of 51%.  Let’s not all stand up at once and cheer, please raise your issue-branded-appendage if you’d like to be heard.  I … Continue reading →

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Pain Through A Pane

Posted on November 8, 2011 by

Last night around dusk I was out walking the dogs, the sky was just beginning to darken due to the end of daylight savings time. I could see people in their homes who hadn’t closed their blinds, or drawn their … Continue reading →

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Feminist Player

Posted on June 3, 2011 by

Throughout the whole trip to Gatlinburg, TN my mother was unaware that we were tripping. We rode silently taking in the changing scenery as the altitude changed. The leaves became crisper and brighter and the seat beneath us came to … Continue reading →

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Continuation of love over pride

Posted on October 15, 2010 by

That evening I prepared a forgetful meal for the kids, and me but the mood at the dinner table was light. We’d spent the whole afternoon indoors hanging around the house, shifting from one room to another. I was able … Continue reading →

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Continuation of Love on a Grand Scale

Posted on October 8, 2010 by

We entered the library eyeing the huddle of fidgety boys in the back corner of the room. They were sitting at pint size tables amongst the rows of books watching a sci-fi, instructional cartoon about the game of chess. Sage … Continue reading →

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Our love includes more than just us!

Posted on October 1, 2010 by

Have you ever questioned what  “real love” means? Do you have your own definition of “true love?” Has your opinion ever changed? My concept of love radically shifted over the past year mainly due to my feelings of self worth. … Continue reading →

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Four Seasons and My door is open!

Posted on September 24, 2010 by

It’s been almost one year ago to the day that I stepped out the doorway of my mainstream life, and into the threshold of a lovely uncertainty. A day I’ll never forget, September 26, 2009. The day was crisp, yet … Continue reading →

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Finding My Voice Never Sounded So Good

Posted on August 30, 2010 by

THURSDAY, AUGUST 26, 2010 Emotional maturity, despite myself, I will write! The ability to hold two conflicting emotions without trying to stop the discomfort, or, to be still in acknowledgement, according to mental health experts, is “emotional maturity.” For example, … Continue reading →

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